How long have I been doing this for? Forty minutes? Just thinking about it makes me retch. I try to find other ways of satisfying him, like using my hands. It triggers off PTSD and makes me feel very uncomfortable.
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On the other hand, several sexually transmitted diseases, including chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, syphilis, genital warts HPV and hepatitis B can be passed on when either your penis is sucked or you suck someone else's penis. Even without the exchange of body fluids, many sexually transmitted diseases can be passed on during close or intimate contact. You could use a condom during oral sex to reduce this risk, but you can't completely eliminate the risk. Scientists characterise the risk of HIV transmission through fellatio as far lower than the risk from anal or vaginal sex.
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If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. There is a massive difference between giving your man oral sex and sucking his dick. Oral sex is certainly a sensual and enjoyable experience for your man while sucking his cock is a more intense, erotic, inhibition-free, animalistic act.
Everyone has questions about blow jobs, so I called up Dr. The truth: Every guy has preferences on just how wet things get during oral, but don't worry if you feel like you're drooling everywhere. That's part of what feels makes this whole thing feel good, so if you're slobbering all over it, don't worry. Just get into it. The only thing you can do wrong during a blow job is stop and apologize about your saliva. The truth: Again, different strokes for different folks, but deep-throating a penis is not the only way to get a guy to orgasm. The most sensitive area is the head of the penis, especially at the base of the underside, so stimulating that area with your mouth and tongue is most important. You can put your fist or just wrap a few fingers around the penis to stop you from taking too much in your mouth, then run your hand along it and suck like you're eating the best freeze pop ever. The truth: "Many of the diseases that can be transmitted from vaginal or anal intercourse can be transmitted from oral intercourse as well," says Dr.
