Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. Cool Nicknames for Guys. As a physician buckling under the stress, my assigned counsellor who is also a church minister told me: So, what do I do with that. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. There are a lot of single people in the world. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome. You are too young to deal with this.
And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. We are fighting and he has no patience which I understand but its really hard to accept for me because I feel like I need more from him out of the relationship. Edited 1 time s. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. Say goodbye to all that. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings.
I really like him, and I think we fit together well with personality, values, and life goals. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. It's in the Mormon DNA.
I am a career military man's wife. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. That's one great thing about the internet and blogging That is exactly how I feel. I would never convert. You are a good person.